Interesting.....
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>Comments anyone? A very interesting article indeed
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>Read on:
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>Dear Editor:
>
>I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Malay male readers. I
>am a White female who is engaged to a Malay male-good-looking, educated
>and loving. I just don't understand a lot of Malay female's attitudes
>about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings
>amongst Malay women were slim to none. As he said they were either too
>fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic
>or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I
>went out I was constantly approached by Malay men, willing to wine and
>dine me and give me the world.
>
>If Malay women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don't
>they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty
>looks I get and snide remarks when we're out in public. I would like to
>hear from some Malay men about why we are so appealing and coveted by
>them. Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of, 26 years for one of us. Charles
>Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams,
>Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi
>Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry
>Fishburne, Wesley Snipes, ...I could go on and on.
>
>But, right now, I'm a little angry and that is why I wrote this so
>hurriedly. Don't be mad with us White women because so many of your men
>want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to
>treat your men better. If I'm wrong, Malay men, let me know.
>
>
>Disgusted White Girl,
>Somewhere in Bangsar.
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>Read On.............
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>This letter was written in response to an article:
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>Response:
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>Dear Editor:
>
>I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.
>Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old Malay man. I graduated from
>one of the most prestigious universities in England with a Masters Of
>Science Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a
>Multinational Corporation and have recently purchased a house and a brand
>new non-national car. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of
>successful Malay men. I will not use my precious time to slander white
>people. I just want to set the record straight of why Malay men date white
>women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why Malay men dated
>white women was because they were considered easy. The Malay girls in my
>neighborhood were raised traditionally. They were very strict about when
>they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our
>impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up
>easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls.
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>Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of Malay males date white women because
>they are docile and easy to control. A lot of Malay men, because of
>insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by
>the strength of our Malay women. We are afraid that our woman will be more
>successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own
>bigger houses. Because of this fear, many Malay men look for a more docile
>woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous Malay men and
>they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their
>white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted
>White Girl to know that not all successful Malay men date white women.
>Non-Whites like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris
>Chestn! ut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds,
>Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong Non-White women. And,
>to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot
>light, who openly or secretly desire Non-White women over white women. Ted
>Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few. I just don't want a
>disgusted white girl to be misinformed.
>
>Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of
>goddess. Remember, when Non-White Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and
>Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over
>in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the
>head with clubs. Read your history! It was the Non-White woman that taught
>you how to cook and season your food. It was the Non-White woman that
>taught you how to raise your children. It was Non-White women who were
>breastfeeding and raising your babies during slavery. It is the Non-White
>woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children
>beaten, killed, and thrown in jail.
>
>Malay women were born with two strikes against them: being Non-White and
>being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of
>the Malay women's strength, elegance, power, love and beauty that I could
>never date anyone except my Malay Queen. It is not just the outer beauty
>that captivates and draws me to them. It is not the fact that they come in
>all shapes, sizes, colors and shades that I love them. Their inner beauty
>is what I find most appealing about Malay women. Their strong spirit,
>loving and nurturing souls, their integrity, their ability to overcome
>great obstacles, their willingness to stand for what they believe in, and
>their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while
>enduring great pain and suffering is why I have fallen in love with Malay
>women.
>
>I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy
>than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to
>tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then
>why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to
>inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous
>substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous? I think that your
>anger is really a result of you wanting to have what the Non-White woman
>has.
>
>
>BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over
>and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for
>a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my
>children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my struggles.
>I am looking for a soul mate and; unfortunately, you do not and CANNOT fit
>the bill.
>
>No offense taken, none given.
>
>
>Signed,
>Malay Professional
Bacalah...bacalah dgn nama Tuhanmu..
Mencari istri hendaklah di atas dasar 4 perkara...
1. kecantikannya
2. agamanya
3. nasabnya
4. hartanya
selain daripada di atas maka dasar/ landasannya adalah nafsu...
walau hitam, putih, oren, kelabu, merah warna wanita yang ingin dikahwini... tetapi jika 4 perkara di atas di ambil kira maka...berbahagialah anda kerana mengikut Sunnah Rasul...
wasalam